So it seems obvious, we do need some hardships in our lives, the question is how much, and how much should we try to control it?
http://gizmodo.com/the-brilliant-but-absurd-history-of-nike-air-technology-1741712594
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201509/declining-student-resilience-serious-problem-colleges
and as a bizarre coincidence as I was thinking about this my ipod cut out and I listened to the radio to hear a joke making fun of a guy who said losing his arm was the best thing that could've ever happened to him (that being the guy from 127 hours)
https://www.yahoo.com/movies/bp/127-hours-almost-had-very-different-ending-000205596.html?nf=1